Post your ad on "women seeking men" instead of "casual encounters" - based on my experience, the calibre of responses are like night and day.
Make an equally good effort to sound eloquent on CL. There are wealthy men using it (at least in London).
Beware the millions of photocollectors! If someone requests a pic, you can send a bodyshot and blank your face at least until you feel comfortable to send a face shot or just ask them wait until they see you IRL as you're being cautious with your ID.
Prepare for your ad to get flagged pretty quickly! Just so your write-up is not in vain, I would copy/save it, so you can effortlessly paste it as a repost another time if you want.
eh the postings usually get pulled after 30 min tops bc the CL hags dont support SBs seeking out a SD on there. i did it once and got like 5 repsonses and never went beyond a few e-mails w. any of them bc they all werent familiar with the SD lifestyle and i just felt wayyyy too paranoid e-mailing some random person from a site where theres murderers, rapists, etc (even tho this is possible on any of the SD sites too). BUT there are some fellow SBs who have had great success with finding a SD via C.L. so i say do it and see what comes from it. could never hurt :) ! x3
I found my Main SD on CL. He is amazing and I have yet to meet anyone on the SD sites that provide anything near the level of luxury he provides for me. So you *can* find someone on CL, you just have to be diligent and patient!
Post your ad on "women seeking men" instead of "casual encounters" - based on my experience, the calibre of responses are like night and day.
ReplyDeleteMake an equally good effort to sound eloquent on CL. There are wealthy men using it (at least in London).
Beware the millions of photocollectors! If someone requests a pic, you can send a bodyshot and blank your face at least until you feel comfortable to send a face shot or just ask them wait until they see you IRL as you're being cautious with your ID.
Prepare for your ad to get flagged pretty quickly! Just so your write-up is not in vain, I would copy/save it, so you can effortlessly paste it as a repost another time if you want.
That's my take - good luck!
eh the postings usually get pulled after 30 min tops bc the CL hags dont support SBs seeking out a SD on there. i did it once and got like 5 repsonses and never went beyond a few e-mails w. any of them bc they all werent familiar with the SD lifestyle and i just felt wayyyy too paranoid e-mailing some random person from a site where theres murderers, rapists, etc (even tho this is possible on any of the SD sites too). BUT there are some fellow SBs who have had great success with finding a SD via C.L. so i say do it and see what comes from it. could never hurt :) ! x3
ReplyDeleteThank you Eden and Sunshine!! (:
ReplyDeleteI found my Main SD on CL. He is amazing and I have yet to meet anyone on the SD sites that provide anything near the level of luxury he provides for me. So you *can* find someone on CL, you just have to be diligent and patient!
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